Yesterday I had a conversation with a friend who needs to totally rebrand and remodel her business. After 15 years she needs basically to start from scratch and he has very difficult time to do it so. I have started to totally changed my career and also my life choices by end of my 30s and have been called more than once crazy. At this point of “advance age” usually people make life and career decisions based on advancing further in the chosen path rather than radically new directions.
Is it true, that at some point, a magic number of years of your life you are simply just too old to change?
My very own answer to this question is very clear: NO you are never too old for a radical change. Every radical change of any kind, businesswise, career wise or life choices will set you back at the beginning and there lies the biggest problem for older generations as this type of changes demand staggering amount of energy and also self-discipline and a pinch of risk appetite. In your youth this soft skills are existent in abundance while with aging, your physical and also mental skills can regress particularly if you don’t practice and exercise. Your financial obligations and also expectation grow with time, therefore you feel you have more to lose and this is the reason why so many people are stuck in unhappy situations. I don’t want to fool anybody here, I totally understand my friends, who are not happy with their career choice and some of them basically hate every single day when they have to go to work but want for their children to have what they consider a “great” life. I understand that they put the needs of their loved ones above their own happiness. At some degree I also admire them for this kind of behavior and yet I find it incredible sad, if somebody at the age of 40 tells me, that they are too old to start new. They will have to live a miserable life for another 30 years in prison jargon this means “life sentence”, they just build their cell all by them self.
We make our own choices, how much commitment we are willing to risk.
I can promise you even if you are very young and full of energy you can be too old for a change if you don’t want to change. If you are not prepared to make any commitment or deep inside you simply resist change, you will never make it. You will fail every single time, no matter your age. If you are my age or thinking about that you might be too old, please be kind to yourself and remember that you have already done this kind of exercise before. You have already once transformed and created a new life for you (just like everybody else who grows up) and if you have done it before you can do it again. In some ways it might be even easier as now you know more about what you like. It will take courage to take the first step of course but once you are over this hurdle usually there is also no going back as you have already started to change and you will never be the “old me” again. If your change feels just as to big gap from where you stand, take smaller steps and the distance will become every time smaller until it’s just in front of your nose…