How do you start your mornings? Do you choose the healthy option including fruit and other sensible food or do you belong to the group of people, starting their day with coffee and (I hope not) cigarette?
I belong to the first group, mainly out of the necessity, due to my various allergies but also because I am aware that if I want my body to function at its best I also give him the best possible fuel. This understanding of my own needs of course took some time and I had horrendous breakfast choices in my life. But how do you start your day mentally? I found myself guilty of checking my phone and my email first thing in the morning ( very often still in bed) very often Facebook and then moved towards newspapers, where I read about death of 13 years old by other 13 years old or war or accidents.
There was one particular nasty morning start; a bunch of bad emails with nothing but problems on ongoing project combined with what it seemed like terrible night for this world. This made me feel already grumpy and depressed, while not even changed out of my PJs. Here was the time where I decided to take a similar approach to what I take in mentally first thing in the morning as I do automatically physically. There were and still are two problems to this dilemma. First of my issues would be that every single newspaper you choose is full of bad news. Perhaps not 100% bad but the general media coverage is about some sensational horror. It looks like good news are scares nowadays. My own solution to this dilemma was to create a flipboard magazine, where I “flip” interesting and inspiring but also up-to-day news or I listen to inspiring podcast first in the morning. There are some brilliant podcast out there, which make my mind breakfast as nutritional as my actual breakfast and I can start my day on a positive and productive note.
There are various researches confirming, that your mind rules your emotional perception and therefore also your productivity. I mean even FB asks you “what’s on your mind” first thing in your morning, this si how valuable this information can be… I am not advising other people to hide away from the reality, I do know that horrible things happen and very often we should be aware of everything there is around us, but I ask people I to pay attention and be selective what they let into their mind. Here is theory for you guys: There is absolutely no benefit for me to know that a murder (no matter how gruesome) has happened, if they have the perpetrator. I cannot help the investigators to understand this particular crime or be useful in any other way. I can also not change the past by knowing it happened, therefore I cannot prevent the murder. Therefore there is actually not a single reason why this should be in newspapers at the first place. One possibility that could happen, this crime could inspire me as it sparks some phantasies ( this is just hypothetical). I think that the increase of violence and also the intensity of cruelty is due to abundance of media coverage and therefore the function of a role model.
If you read about great leaders and their morning rituals you will discovers that their focus is rather specific. First thing they do in the morning is to concentrate on internal mental state.
The result of my own experiment? 100% better start into the day. I am convinced; perhaps you can give it a try as well.